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Thinking About Divorce?
_Tips to Save a Marriage
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Have you or your partner been thinking about divorce?
Are you looking for advice?
Experience usually lets us know that the harder we look, the harder it gets to get good advice. This is simply because we humans are not impartial in most of our affairs.
Depending on the relationship we may be more subjective and our objectivity can be affected. An easily recognisable example is if you go to a friend or relative, their decision is bound to be influenced by what they think of that person, what they think of you and what effect they think the other person has on you.
They will be influenced by the relationship and bond that they share with you versus the relationship and bond that they share with your spouse. Moreover the knowledge that they have may not always be sufficient or complete to make a wholesome decision. It is also not always possible to convey all the information the right angle or perspective to enable them to do so either.
Alternatively, if you go visit a divorce lawyer, you can be fairly sure what the consequences are likely to be and the perspective they will take to approach what you present to them. They are sure to see how to get your divorce underway as soon as possible so that they can earn their own living.
Therefore getting legal advice is not always the best option to start with but obviously a necessary one if the decision has already been made prima facie. It can also be useful if you are concerned about or ignorant of your rights.
However, if you choose the option of seeing a Relationship Counselors they are likely to give some of the best, most impartial and most practical advice on such issues. They usually will have seen it all before and they are well versed with all the stages of the relationship no matter which stage you are currently facing difficulties in.
Their experience will enable them to be objective and to understand not only what should be done to mend the marriage, but also whether it is now possible to mend it or if it is too late and thus that in itself is a big plus. Being a third party their opinion and viewpoint is also likely to better accepted by your partner than had someone else put forth the same view or opinion.
Because the Relationship Counselor should be taking an objective viewpoint and stance, their comments and advice should be straightforward and clear. They usually will identify and acknowledge the issues and problem areas that both parties need to work on or address. For any improvement in the relationship, no matter what the case, it has to be an effort from both sides.
Making such a decision to consider or takes steps to divorce by oneself is extremely difficult as one is so emotionally involved that it clouds their intellect. It is therefore imperative to seek some sort of professional advice. There is the possibility that the wrong decision could haunt you, and your near ones, for the rest of your and their lives.
So if your relationship is important to you or at least has been important to you at some stage, give it the recognition that importance deserves by visiting a qualified expert to help you help yourself.
Have you or your partner been thinking about divorce?
Are you looking for advice?
Experience usually lets us know that the harder we look, the harder it gets to get good advice. This is simply because we humans are not impartial in most of our affairs.
Depending on the relationship we may be more subjective and our objectivity can be affected. An easily recognisable example is if you go to a friend or relative, their decision is bound to be influenced by what they think of that person, what they think of you and what effect they think the other person has on you.
They will be influenced by the relationship and bond that they share with you versus the relationship and bond that they share with your spouse. Moreover the knowledge that they have may not always be sufficient or complete to make a wholesome decision. It is also not always possible to convey all the information the right angle or perspective to enable them to do so either.
Alternatively, if you go visit a divorce lawyer, you can be fairly sure what the consequences are likely to be and the perspective they will take to approach what you present to them. They are sure to see how to get your divorce underway as soon as possible so that they can earn their own living.
Therefore getting legal advice is not always the best option to start with but obviously a necessary one if the decision has already been made prima facie. It can also be useful if you are concerned about or ignorant of your rights.
However, if you choose the option of seeing a Relationship Counselors they are likely to give some of the best, most impartial and most practical advice on such issues. They usually will have seen it all before and they are well versed with all the stages of the relationship no matter which stage you are currently facing difficulties in.
Their experience will enable them to be objective and to understand not only what should be done to mend the marriage, but also whether it is now possible to mend it or if it is too late and thus that in itself is a big plus. Being a third party their opinion and viewpoint is also likely to better accepted by your partner than had someone else put forth the same view or opinion.
Because the Relationship Counselor should be taking an objective viewpoint and stance, their comments and advice should be straightforward and clear. They usually will identify and acknowledge the issues and problem areas that both parties need to work on or address. For any improvement in the relationship, no matter what the case, it has to be an effort from both sides.
Making such a decision to consider or takes steps to divorce by oneself is extremely difficult as one is so emotionally involved that it clouds their intellect. It is therefore imperative to seek some sort of professional advice. There is the possibility that the wrong decision could haunt you, and your near ones, for the rest of your and their lives.
So if your relationship is important to you or at least has been important to you at some stage, give it the recognition that importance deserves by visiting a qualified expert to help you help yourself.